One who goes on, having a honest mind, would find his way, Nyom. Monasteries are neither good or bad, chance with people dwelling there. For one one day horrible, for another heaven, yet for one after practice for release, not independent yet, just a trusted teacher counts. One has to spend time with someone for a longer, to know another well.
It's not possible to find something out of the living room. It's not like booking a holiday, yet even such is total insecure. One who leaves doesn't seek certain becoming, house, yet goes on till at one's real home.